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Verified. Discreet. Human.

Every profile here is a real, verified person.

No bots. No fembots. No automated engagement, ever. Every member passes ID and liveness verification before they can send a single message.

For discreet connections and consensually open relationships alike, verification works the same way. Discretion settings are yours to choose, not assumed for you.

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Launching in San Francisco, Los Angeles, and San Diego.

3 checks

Nothing goes live without a human saying yes.

ID match, live selfie, and a trust & safety reviewer, every single time. No exceptions, no fast-track for anyone.

  • ID + liveness on every account

    Not a checkbox. A government ID match and a live selfie, every time.

  • Human-reviewed, not automated

    A trust & safety team reviews every new profile before it goes live.

  • Quarterly transparency report

    We publish what we remove and why, on a public schedule, starting with our first report at launch.

How verification works

Three steps between signing up and messaging.

  1. 1

    Verify your ID

    A government ID check confirms you're a real, unique adult. The document itself is never shown on your profile.

  2. 2

    A quick liveness check

    A live selfie is matched against your photos, so the person you match with is the person you meet.

  3. 3

    Human review

    A trust & safety reviewer signs off before your profile becomes visible, every time, no exceptions.

Free to join. Free to browse.

Signing up, verifying, and browsing profiles costs nothing. WrenSt doesn't run ads and doesn't sell member data, so there's no third revenue stream but yours.

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